Most girls stay away from blow jobs because they think that a blow job equates to deep throating; actually, you can give a great blow job without taking the member in so deep in your mouth. Of course it is a man's ultimate fantasy to see his shaft disappear into a woman's mouth and feel her throat on his head but there are other ways to make a guy feel fantastic as well. So the answer to the million dollar question is no you don't necessarily need to go the deep throat way to give mind blowing head but let's talk about how you are going to do it anyway.
One of the first issues that a woman may have is a mental block where she may feel that her guy's member is simply too big for her mouth or rather her mouth is too small for it but actually this is a misconception except in the rarest circus freak cases.
Even if your man is well endowed you will still be able to accommodate him in your mouth with relative ease. The next problem is of the gag reflex which scares the day lights out of many women. Now, just because you gag does not mean you are choking, even if you were to stick you finger far back ion your mouth your gag reflex would kick in and you would end up belching a bit but it certainly does not mean that you are choking on your finger.
If you do intend to deep throat your man, you will need to learn to override the gag reflex and this can be accomplished with a little practice. Start with a banana because it is soft and pliable, don't go for a very ripe fruit, now start sucking on it and take it in your mouth, take it back to the back of your tongue and hold it there, if you don't feel anything push in further by an inch, wait till you feel a slight gag reflex coming up, take it out, once you feel the reflex; wait for a minute and try it again.
Once you are comfortable with the banana being at the back of your tongue, push it in deeper by another inch and go back to practicing, in time you will be able to get the whole banana in, at least it will be touching the back of your throat without too much gagging. If you think your man's member is too long and thick try with other phallus shaped fruits and veggies and you will definitely get it in time.
On the other hand, you can always do away with deep throating all together and yet make your man weak in his knees, learn to use your tongue in different ways, vary the pressure and the grip of you mouth while you suck him and the right way to is grip his shaft with your hand and stroke it hard to get an effect which will be as good as deep throating. find more information on adult dating
One of the first issues that a woman may have is a mental block where she may feel that her guy's member is simply too big for her mouth or rather her mouth is too small for it but actually this is a misconception except in the rarest circus freak cases.
If you do intend to deep throat your man, you will need to learn to override the gag reflex and this can be accomplished with a little practice. Start with a banana because it is soft and pliable, don't go for a very ripe fruit, now start sucking on it and take it in your mouth, take it back to the back of your tongue and hold it there, if you don't feel anything push in further by an inch, wait till you feel a slight gag reflex coming up, take it out, once you feel the reflex; wait for a minute and try it again.
Once you are comfortable with the banana being at the back of your tongue, push it in deeper by another inch and go back to practicing, in time you will be able to get the whole banana in, at least it will be touching the back of your throat without too much gagging. If you think your man's member is too long and thick try with other phallus shaped fruits and veggies and you will definitely get it in time.
On the other hand, you can always do away with deep throating all together and yet make your man weak in his knees, learn to use your tongue in different ways, vary the pressure and the grip of you mouth while you suck him and the right way to is grip his shaft with your hand and stroke it hard to get an effect which will be as good as deep throating. find more information on adult dating
